The last post I made on this blog was written out of obligation. As I wrote there, "I honestly don’t have much to write about here. I know that I should, and that is why I am, but I really don’t." I have a few other, completely unrelated posts front-loaded that just need to be …
On Transition, pt. 3: The Night before Full-time
First of all, look at the cover photo for this post and bask in the Pinterest-inspired glory of the vanity I designed for myself. Second of all, it's been... Holy crap! I let six months go by between "On Transition" posts?! I surely didn't mean to do that. I missed documenting months 5-10 of transition, …
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Earliest Trans Memories, pt. 7: Laura’s Playground
*Note: The website mentioned in this article no longer exists. All the screenshots provided are from 2011 and older snapshots from archive.org. This snapshot can be accessed here. Actually, go ahead and click it, and then imagine using such a thing as an "authoritative" source for research.* In a fit of maximum pettiness, I've been …
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On My BFF, Pt. 5: The Second Coming (Out)
I feel like every single piece of this story I've told so far has had the disclaimer that "it's hard to remember now," but really, the week or two (three? four?) that followed my first unsuccessful "coming out" to Naomi are almost entirely lost to my memory. I never really "got" how anyone who had …
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On Religion, pt. 2: What Do They Want?
I am always anxious when I consider writing anything about religion. Maybe that's due to my fairly religious upbringing, where belief is simply something to be had but never, ever questioned. Of course, it's okay to question the beliefs of others, especially if they belong to a denomination which is different from your own. Bonus points …
Drunken Thoughts, pt. 3
I felt so inspired to write this post, but now that I've sat down to do it, I'm not sure where to begin. For all of the many, many downs that life has thrown at me--and I assure you, there have been many, many--I do occasionally have a moment which can be described only as …
On Media, pt. 4: San Junipero
I finished this post a day or two before turning on the Roku and seeing "Black Mirror Season 5" advertised at the top. IT KNOWS, which seems fitting. Also, apparently there's a new VR-themed episode this season? I'm starting it as soon as this post goes live. At any rate, in honor of season 5 …
On Choice, pt. 2
This post was originally written and uploaded the night before leaving for the trip written about in my "On My BFF" posts, the night before I finally came out to Naomi. It is, to date, the only post of mine that I ever unpublished. I present it here, in its original form, despite the fact …
On My BFF, pt. 4: You’ve Got to be Fucking Kidding Me
I was doing okay at the regular update thing there for a little while, but as so often happens, life got in the way. C'est la vie, here we are, back for part 3. Oh wait, this is part 4--damn, I was so proud of that rhyme. "Naomi," I said. "I don't think that it's …
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Drunken Thoughts, pt. 3 (and On Renouncing Privilege, pt. 2)
I am interrupting my telling of the story of my BFF and me to finish a post I started to write on my phone while sitting on the toilet last night. A toilet in the women't bathroom of the bar I was attending for St. Patrick's day. This post was fueled first by Peroni, then …
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